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Help Children Learn by Teaching Them How to Clean

Hilary May 11, 2016

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Did you ever think that you’re actually helping your children learn by actually teaching them how to clean and do housework?

Did you ever think that you’re actually helping your children learn by actually teaching them how to clean and do housework?

Think back to your childhood: Were you taught how to do housework? Or was it just assumed that you’d figure it out once you grew up and moved out on your own?

Believe it or not, some parents don’t teach their children basic homemaking skills.

For one reason, it may not seem like they need to – maybe a cleaning lady comes once a week. Or maybe conveniences like a dishwasher make it unnecessary to teach children how to wash dishes by hand.

But cleaning and basic care for a home isn’t something that comes instinctively. Of course a baby doesn’t know how to do laundry. Similarly, a toddler doesn’t know how to vacuum, a young boy or girl doesn’t know how to wash dishes, and a teenager doesn’t know how to deep clean anything … unless they’re taught.

Unless you’re demonstrating the right (and wrong) way to do basic homemaking chores, your child – no matter his or her age – will have a hard time trying to figure out how to clean on his or her own.

But everyone should learn how to care for their homes – because if your child grows up and spends a few years as a college student, he or she will be glad they know how to cook a basic meal, wash and dry a load of laundry, wash dishes by hand, and do a quick clean up around a dorm room or apartment.

And if and when they get married, your future son- or daughter-in-law will be thrilled to have some help around the house! (Every day I’m thankful my in-laws taught my husband how to cook – and I’m thankful for his years of cooking experience in restaurant jobs!)

Learning these basic life skills during childhood will only help your son or daughter throughout his or her life.

When to start teaching

It’s important for children to realize that work goes into family life and a home. They don’t get to just snap their fingers and have their maid of a mother meet their every want. (If you’re doing that, stop.right.now.)

Once your children are old enough to help, start involving them with work around the house.

It may take a little longer than usual to teach them how to do the work – but once you teach them and they get the hang of their chores, it should get easier.

If your children are too young, don’t worry. Let them see you do the work, but try to involve them as much as you can. Instead of expecting them to do their own laundry at age 4, see if they’ll help you sort clothing – or pair up cleaned and dried socks.

Once your children begin to master their chores, let them take responsibility for getting it done.

And when they get older, add or change different chores.

Did you ever think that you’re actually helping your children by teaching children to do housework?

Chore ideas for children

Before you teach your children what to do around the house and start assigning chores, first think about how you would like to equip them.

What do you think they need to know? I have just a few ideas, but add or remove any to tailor your family’s needs:

Cooking

  • How to cook breakfast, like fry eggs, scramble eggs, hard boil an egg, make an omelet, and make pancakes. (Breakfast foods are great, because you can eat them at any meal … plus, they’re easy.)
  • How to heat and reheat food on the stove, in the oven, and in the microwave.
  • How to clean and prepare fresh vegetables and fruit.
  • How to put groceries away.

Cleaning

  • How to make a bed.
  • How to pick up their bedroom.
  • How to sort, wash, dry, fold, and put away laundry.
  • How to wash and dry dishes.
  • How to take out the trash.
  • How to dust.
  • How to sweep, vacuum, and mop floors.
  • How to clean the bathroom. Depending on your child’s age, teach how to clean the mirrors, sink, bathtub, and eventually the toilet.

As you teach your children to do these basic chores and housework, your work around your home eventually should get easier as you share tasks.

But there’s a greater benefit to teaching them now.  You’re helping them – and preparing them – for life as adults.

Did you ever think that you’re actually helping your children by teaching children to do housework?

What have you done as you’re teaching children to do housework?


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Hilary Bernstein is a Christ follower, wife, homeschooling mama, and writer who believes every Christian woman can transform her home into a haven. She's happiest when she's hosting friends and family for dinner, going on date nights with her husband, singing along to the radio while driving her kids around, enjoying live performances, relaxing on family vacations at the beach, and spending cozy family nights at home.The author of several books, Hilary loves to encourage her e-mail subscribers!
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